Time Sinks, or not

Time is rarely on any of our sides these days, it seems. We're busier with more responsibilities, places to go, people to see, deals to make, projects to complete, you name it. As if there wasn't enough to do just doing everything, we also add the task of telling people that we're doing it via blogs, Facebook, Twitter and a dozen other social networking thingamabobs.

Remember when we were excited about simple cellular phones? Now we carry mini-computers that keep us uber-connected and, oh yeah, they even let us talk to each other. (Some let us see each other while we're gabbing.)

The flip side to having all this wonderful access to information that allegedly makes our lives easier, which should lead to us accomplishing more, is that they also open us up to endless time sucks.

Angry Birds? Time suck. My index finger is soon going to suffer a repetitive stress injury from catapulting those virtual feathered friends across my screen to explode green pigs.

Just typing that last sentence makes me laugh at myself. "So, Mary, what'd you do today?" "I worked and when I took a break, I shot cartoon birds at cartoon pigs. On a screen."

If anybody actually asks, I should cut to the chase and say, "I worked and when I didn't, I engaged in a mindless time sink."

Angry Birds, Bejeweled Blitz, Bubble Popp. Fun games but they can all take over my attention until I play them over and over and over in robotic repetition.

I have a Scrabble app on my phone. Is playing one game against the computer a time sink? I refuse to put it in the same category. Maybe that's because I love to play Scrabble and consider it a learning experience. It's not a time sink. It's helping me stave off Alzheimer's. That's my rationalization and I'm sticking to it.

I could wile away an entire day reading a great book. Is that a day wasted? Maybe on some level, in that I didn't accomplish anything else, but the pure entertainment of reading is never a waste. At least not in my opinion.

So, I ask you. When is an app or a game or some mindless activity NOT a time sink? Maybe I should develop criteria. Say, it isn't a time sink when it's helping me fill otherwise empty time --like when I waiting in a doctor's office for an appointment, or my flight's delayed and I'm bored. Ahhh, maybe that's the ticket. If the app helps me do something else, then it serves a useful purpose.

There's probably more to ponder on this topic, a lot more. I could keep writing but perhaps that would then become a time suck, too.

A New Look

Unless you usually read my blog with your eyes closed, you probably noticed the new design. Isn't it pretty? It goes with the new design for my website www.mary-stella.com. I have to thank the talented Rae Monet for designing and implementing the new sites. We're not 100% finished, but great progress has been made and I couldn't be happier.

Rae would make more progress but she's waiting on me to finish up some stuff and supply her with the information.

During the transition process, the list of blogs I used to have here disappeared. I'm slowly rebuilding. If your blog used to be here and isn't now, would you please shoot me an email at mary@mary-stella.com? Please, please, don't make me rely on my memory.

Thanks!